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Self on Strap-On Sex

I’ve recently reconnected with one of my friends from college. He’s a great guy who always turned down my (extremely needy and unwarranted) sexual advances. I’m pretty sure that’s why we stopped talking in the first place. Young Harlot had a hard time understanding why everyone in the world didn’t want to have sex with her.

Anyway.

One of the things that he and I have been talking about is pegging. He’s been cohabitating with his (extremely sexy) girlfriend for a few months. They’re always interested in going on sexual adventures together. She is super interested in strapping up and fucking his butt. Never one to shy away from an experience, he said he was down. When they got into it though, he was having trouble completely opening up his body and accepting the whole dildo.

I pointed him in the direction of the Self article linked below because they have a few good pointers for anyone who is planning on heading down the road to utilizing a strap on, either by giving or receiving. He and I had an awesome conversation about the contents, so I figured I’d share their tips with you Peepz, in case anyone was interested in that kind of play.

1. You should discuss what you and your partner want from strap-on sex.

Totally makes sense. Communication is absolutely key. Are you looking to be teased with the tip? Are you looking to expand all your holes and horizons? How does the fantasy play out in your head?

2. Different dildo materials have their pros and cons.

DO NOT BUY JELLY DILDOS OR ANYTHING THAT IS POROUS! Super danger zone Peepz. Body safe silicone is my favorite, but you can also go with metal or glass if you’re looking for a strength that is completely unforgiving to the curves of your insides. The sensation is totally all relative. If you open up a dildo that you just purchased and it smells bad? DO NOT STICK IT IN YOUR BODY!

3. You’ll need to clean your dildo properly.

Obviously. Don’t stick dirty toys inside your body or rub them on the outside of your body. Cleanliness is important when it comes to all things sexual.

4. The harness is as important as the dildo.

Comfort is key. I prefer leather, my wife prefers nylon harnesses like THIS ONE. It’s all personal preference.

5. Dildos can spread sexually transmitted infections.

Safer sex, my Peepz. Always use a condom on a dildo and make sure you change condoms in between partners to avoid the probability of spreading STDs. My friend had never even considered using a condom on a dildo before. It’ll change the experience for the better, I swear.

6. It can take a while to find your rhythm.

Don’t rush it, take your time…communicate what feels right and what doesn’t. Be open to trying new things, but know your limits and make sure you tell your partner before you jump right over the ledge into, “STOP NOW!” territory.

7. As always, communication is key.

I can’t say that enough

8. Definitely talk about whether you can use the strap-on with other partners.

I had a girlfriend once who was very possessive over my strap on, even though it came into my collection 5 years before I had even met her. At parties, she would never let me break it out because she felt as though that act were a bit too personal. I could eat all the pussy that I wanted, but if I put my dick on, she’d be hella jealous and make a fuss. It all loops back to communication.

9. A strap-on might make you feel like a total badass.

Penises wield power. My feminist brain doesn’t want to accept it, but it’s totally true in the bedroom. When I have my dick strapped up, I’m like a sexual superhero coming to take my wife through the paces of orgasm after orgasm.

I feel like my take away from this whole article is to communicate your wants and needs to your partner before, during and after each strap on session you have. Just because something was OK today doesn’t mean that it’s what is on the table for tomorrow.

Source: Self

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